
Brent earned mega "Good Husband" points for this one!! The Sunday before last was our six year anniversary, and he pulled off quite a surprise for me. He knew that I was really excited to get away and feeling comfortable with leaving Gavin at home for a night, and in his anniversary card he wrote: "I knew that the best gift I could give you was my time." And he was right! So, Saturday afternoon he told me to get in the car--after several hours of sneakiness, might I add--because we were going on a field trip. I was in shorts and flip flops, by the way, and had nothing else "on my person." (You've gotta love that phrase!) We dropped Gavin off at Grandma and Grandpa Topping's house in
Niwot, and he was having so much fun with his toys when we left that he hardly noticed our departure. It felt SO strange to drive away without our son or his car seat in the back of the car, which is so amazing considering that it was totally normal 9 1/2 months ago! (Brent had secretly removed the car seat from our car and put it in his mom's car while I nursed Gavin.) So as we drove away I got filled in on the plan: We were going to my dad's river house (a place that my dad has been trying to sell for longer than he'd like to remember), which is between
Loveland and Estes Park. It's a great place in the canyon right along the Big Thompson River, and Brent had found a hike near the house that we could do on Saturday afternoon because he knew that I would love that. We hiked and talked and enjoyed the sunshine, and my husband had remembered to bring me a sports bra, hiking shorts, hiking boots and socks, a hat and even photo equipment to capture the above picture of us. Impressive!

Every time I asked him, "Now, you wouldn't have happened to remember...., would you have?" he'd shock me. (Mind you, there are specific things--like a breast pump--that one must remember in this scenario, and he had ALL his bases covered. I was impressed!) After our hike we came back to the house and cooked dinner. Brent had even brought a thermos of water from home since he can't stand the
skunky sulfur water at the river house. We really had a nice time together, and it was very special to me that he had been so thoughtful in his planning of our get-away. (He had left a list of typed instructions for his parents too!) It was such a nice feeling to get in the car and learn that everything I needed was already there,
unbeknownst to me. What a sweet and sneaky husband!

This is how we found Gavin upon our return, vegging out in a lounge chair after a tough game of baseball....OK, maybe not. I put him in our neighbor's chair to see how he'd like it during our block
bbq , and he was unexpectedly calm and collect for a few minutes there. I think we may need to invest in one of these! We worried a little that
Gavincito might have been angry with us for leaving him for a night, but he crawled right into Mama's arms with a smile big enough to cause his
binky to fall out when we showed up in his room on Sunday morning. What a blessing!

This is Gavin's office space in the kitchen. He gets
a lot of work done here, so it's a good thing that he's paid by the item. (I think this may actually be more helpful to us someday when he learns to put each piece of
tupperware back in its haphazard spot in the nightmarish
tupperware cabinet, but for now it gives him something fun,messy and safe to do in the kitchen while I'm trying to get something done in there too.) He looks so proud of himself in this picture, doesn't he?