
These pictures were taken on the first night that Gavin slept in his "big boy bed," which was the night of his birthday party, Sept. 13. We just thought that his birthday would make for a good time to transition him from his crib to the bed and give him some time to adjust before someone else, namely his baby brother, is sleeping in his crib next door.

You can tell that he's rather confused and bewildered that we would have actually expected him to sleep in the new liberator--a much better name for it than the "big boy bed"--and it's honestly been quite an adjustment for the little man.

In this picture, however, Gavin looks like he can play the part of the big boy that will accompany the bed with the same name. He's lying so still and nicely, like he plans to get a wonderful night of rest in his new surroundings.

But, let's call a spade a spade. The daytime nap situation has been MUCH harder than the nighttime sleep. He avoids napping for 3o minutes on a good day to two hours on a bad one. (The whole process is taking us more like one hour these days, so I have to remind myself that we're making progress.) Featured in the above picture are Gavin's feet under the gate at the top of our stairs: the only thing I saw when I went up to check on him the first day of "sleeping" in his bed. He fell asleep there for about 40 minutes until he woke himself up by knocking his feet against the gate, at which point I took him into his bed. That day wasn't as horrible as day #2 when he refused the nap altogether, and it's been getting better ever since. I have to realize that this is a whole new freedom now that he'll have to get used to and become more comfortable with. Admittedly, the only way that I get him to nap some days is by lying down next to him--and it doesn't take much for
me to fall asleep there either, let's be honest--and I'm worried, as is Daddy I know, of setting a bad precedent that I won't want or be able to maintain.
Gavin and I really like snuggling, though, so I also tell myself (and Brent) that those are priceless memories that I won't regret. Being 25 + weeks pregnant right now, falling asleep next to my sweet son for a mid-day snooze is not the worst thing I could be doing....right?