I love decorating the Christmas tree with my boys! Each year, I'm getting better at letting them do more and more. I have to remind myself that it's more important to me that they're involved and feel like it's OUR tree than for me to have a perfectly-decorated Christmas tree.
I like to turn on Christmas music while we decorate and tell the boys the background on each ornament. It's been fun to see the collection grow: a combination of our childhood ornaments and now my boys' special ones from all of us who love them so much.
And we're still die-hards about getting a real Christmas tree every year. We love the smell and the tradition and the whole thing, really.
I found little mailboxes at the dollar store before Christmas, and we've had lots of fun with those. Gavin and Gage
still have one outside each of their doors, and we leave messages and other random stuff for them there (a run-away single sock, a rock from outside, Legos, etc.). Don't forget to raise the flag to let the boys know they have mail!!!